2 weeks ago…

Almost two weeks ago I saw an old friend.

I knew him from when I was a high school student- we caught the same train for years. When I met Jake, my high school boyfriend, it turned out that Jimmy (the old friend I saw) knew him and I got to know Jimmy better because despite having caught the same train for years we hadn`t really had much to do with each other.

Seeing Jimmy brings back memories of high school parties, drinking too much, train rides to school & uni life as we were at the same uni for our first year, doing some similar subjects.

Ironically we ran into each other on the train to work- I have seen him a couple times since I have been back in Australia and once, about six weeks ago, we even stopped and had a coffee to catch up. He is doing well, hates his job and wants to change but apart from that he is good. Hasn`t changed at all really…

Two weeks ago he asked me if I remembered somebody. Some  identical twins that had been in the same year as Jake & Jimmy.

I replied, of course I remember P & M….I used to see them all the time at parties back in the day, back during the time I was still with Jake.

Then he said the words that threw me. ” M died a couple of weeks ago…”

I was shocked, I asked if he had been sick, I asked how P was but I really couldn`t comprehend what he was saying and all I could think of was that someone my age, a friend, had died. Poor P.  Poor M & P`s family.

M was electrocuted at work. He was an electrician. So is P. He was 22….he died several weeks before his 23rd birthday.

My mind was spinning around, I knew I should comfort Jimmy who had always been close to them both. I was speechless….I  did not know what to say.

Jimmy & I parted at the station and all I wanted to do was cry. How could something like this have happened? I walked around in a daze all day, I rang my mum to tell her & I tried to remember the last time I saw the twins. It has got to be 5 years….not since before Jake & I broke up which was all the way back in late 2003.  I can not recollect the last time I saw M or P though…

I am sending a prayer up today though, as P & his family are heading into their first christmas season without M and I can not even begin to imagine what they are going through and how hard this will be for them. I wish them the very best though and I just hope they can get through it. And I am sending a prayer up for M, whose life was taken from him way too early….such a tragedy.

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3 Responses to 2 weeks ago…

  1. It really affects us when we hear sad news like this – young people dying just doesn’t seem right.
    I am so sorry for the loss of your Friend M, and I feel for his family.
    As a mum of twins I cannot imagine one of them losing their brother so tragically.
    I will pray for them too.
    Take care of your heart

  2. Nay

    I am sorry for the loss of your friend M…

    I can understand that this time of the year is going to be extremely difficult for all of his family to cope with… this time of the year really hurts, because you see your whole family assemble together to share in the celebrations but its not your ‘whole’ family at all… It hurts, a lot.

    I am praying for his family and hope although there will be many tears, they will be able to share a few laughs together as well.

    Hugs to you too – I know just hearing news that someone you know, some one your own age, is really hard to deal with…

  3. Thank you to you both.

    I know there were so many people closer to M that I was, like I said I hadn`t seen him in awhile, but it was still such a shock.

    Trish & Nay, I know you have both had losses in your life- thank you for taking the time to comment.

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