June 101 update and more…

Am late getting this posted. Whenever Noah goes down for a nap I think “I should blog” or once he is asleep at night but I just don`t. I guess my blogging mojo has gone down hill a little bit recently…

Update 101 things is 1001 days for June 2010

33. Maintain the weight loss for at least six months  (abandoned June 2009 due to pregnancy, to restart after birth. Managed 4 months before getting pregnant and started again Jan 2010) 6/6.
DONE! Since losing my pregnancy weight by the time Noah was a month old and actually losing a further couple of kilos I came out 3kg less than my pre-pregnancy weight AND means that since I started the 1001 days challenge I lost 10kg, put on 12kg, lost 15kg! That is a lot of yo-yo weight loss/gain in a short amount of time but hopefully I can maintain it now for awhile!


50. Learn how to use photoshop.

This has been a long time coming, and to be honest I can`t see myself using the program much but I know my way around (slightly!) and can do some touch ups if I want. I found it all very time consuming though and I would rather just take photos and upload as is unless I was making something special as a gift or something. But that is just me! It is an amazing program though and the things you can do with it (of which I only know a small amount) is incredible.

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Books read in June

I am still working on “The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo” – This is without a doubt the longest it has taken me to read a novel before. I guess I just haven`t really gotten into it. I like it enough but all the Swedish names make it confusing and I think after caring for Noah all day my brain is just mush and makes it a bit hard to follow sometimes. Once I am done, while I own the next two in the series, I will probably hold off on reading them until I go to Australia later in the year. I am looking forward to reading a different novel but definitely something that doesn`t require me to concentrate so much (How bad does that sound. Honestly though, I think other mums out there probably understand at least those with under 3s)

Reading Magic- Mem Fox (more on this later)

Top 100 Baby Purees- Annabel Karmel

Oh and in June I probably read over 30 different pictures books (some more than 2 or 3 times!).

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Mem Fox is an author of Australian children`s books and also works on children`s literacy. I recently picked up her book “Reading Magic” which focuses on reading aloud to your children from birth or a young age and the impact it will have on their ability to read later on. I have read to Noah almost everyday since he was born- I usually have a little book in my bag in case we get bored on a train or while out, I read before bath time and at other times of the day and on the weekends I encourage Shun to read Japanese picture books to Noah and I always take books to my in-laws house so that they can read to Noah too (in Japanese)

Noah is not even 7 months old and has approximately 100 picture books in English (and only about 10 in Japanese), We haven`t read all the books we own but have read most of them. Some of the golden books I have though are a bit long so I am leaving them for when he is older.

I love to read. I have always loved to read and apparently I taught myself to read before I even went to kindy. How? Well my parents read to me everyday and I guess that helped.

Reading through Mem`s book I began to realize why I was able to teach myself to read really young. All the things she encouraged parents/teachers etc to do are things my parents did with me and a lot of the case studies in her books were of children reading younger than usual or those that struggled with reading were ONLY trying to learn from a phonics base focus instead of concentrating on the whole words and stories (which you do when reading aloud to children)

Anyway I found the book fantastic. Noah only has 3 of Mem Fox`s children`s books but I will definitely try to pick up some others when we are back in Australia.

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Noah`s napping has turned to crap. He still naps but a couple of weeks ago when his schedule changes (yet again!) and he started waking up  for the day around 6am every morning I would feed him at 6am, do his breakfast about 8am, feed him again at 9am and he would get drowsy or fall asleep while feeding and I would put him down for a nap and he would sleep for about an hour and then at 12 or so when I would feed him again he would fall asleep again.

This meant that he was no longer putting HIMSELF to sleep in his cot because he was pretty much asleep when I put him in the cot. The problem with this is that I spent so much time ensuring he was able to put himself to sleep previously that I knew if I didn`t break him of the habit we would be in trouble and he would start needing me to fall asleep.

When we were out and about he would still just sleep when he was ready in his pram or ergo- not necessarily after feeds but over the weekend and today I have tried to switch it up so that he naps without feeding first (He is not hungry or anything- he would usually have had a feed within 1hr30 mins) and it has been a nightmare.

A good 45 minutes each time of him screaming when I put him in the cot. I would pat him for a bit and he would settle but he would whimper for awhile and then start screaming again. It is not like me hoding him helps as he just gets frustrated. His first 2 naps today he has while we were out at the embassy. Both were very short though- only 25 minutes or so each so he was still pretty tired so I ave just managed to settle him again for another nap. I put him in the cot at 12:30pm and he FINALLY fell asleep at 1:20pm although he was exhausted. He would self settle for a bit but then scream again so I was in and out of his room non-stop.

Any advice? I don`t want him to be reliant on breastfeeding for sleep but I am happy to pat him until he settles or continue to go into his room to let him know I am close by.  Previously though I would just put him in his cot and he would play a bit and then fall asleep. At night he would often be asleep after his bath and feed before I put him down but if he was still awake I would put him in his cot anyway and he would chat” for a it then fall asleep by himself. I very rarely had to go back into his room once I had put him in the cot.

I think part of it might also be separation anxiety setting in because now if he is playing in the living room and I get up to go to the kitchen or soomething he will often turn on the water works.

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10 comments:

  1. suzy, 12. July 2010, 13:29

    I read Reading Magic when Ali was about the same ages as Noah, and thought it was great. Ali loves books now, and they’re part of the bedtime routine.

    With the naps, the only advice I have it to try and not let it bug you too much. In my experience baby’s schedules change all the time without rhyme or reason & the books that tell you otherwise are fibbing. If you think Noah needs a nap and feeding him gets him to sleep, I would just go with whatever works for you.

     
  2. Khea, 12. July 2010, 14:14

    That theory on reading is really interesting! I need to read to Missha more… ><

    Mostly wanted to comment to say I still read… but I guess since your posts are long and cover lot's of interesting topics about your life, I'm finding it hard to focus and write any comments in response XD In a bit of a can't focus for long, and feel like I have a million things to do (though I don't) kinda mood lately. Forgive me. =)

     
  3. Trixy, 12. July 2010, 15:57

    This lady is pretty much a superstar:
    http://www.pinkymckay.com.au/

    Might be worth a look :)

     
  4. Jessica, 12. July 2010, 20:27

    I think I agree with suzy about the naps. If Noah needs a feed to get to sleep then so be it. For what its worth, DS is going to be three in October and he still takes a bottle at bedtime. He *can* fall asleep without it but it is part of his bedtime routine and I’m pretty sure he won’t be taking a bottle before bed when he’s 7 or anything so meh, whatever. I’ve always been more of a “whatever works” sort of mom when it comes to sleep though. :)

     
  5. Luisa, 13. July 2010, 7:13

    Ditto to all the sleep issues, remember he is just a baby, it`s not like he can reason or figure out that he is tired and must sleep..and he`s probably learning more everyday about his surrounding and becoming more aware. With anything new or different from routine Miss A would cry a lot a the beginning, I just put it down to learning new stuff.
    Gambatte, it`s just another of those things you learn as you go and no-one really tells you, just do what works for you.

     
  6. Sarah, 13. July 2010, 9:13

    I had a hard time getting into the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. But I was on vacation and had nothing else to do. The names are tedious. Wait til you get halfway through. You won’t be able to put it down!

     
  7. Kelley @ Magnetoboldtoo, 14. July 2010, 14:37

    When you work out photoshop I am sending all my stuff to you. My photoshop expert moved out and I cannot get my head around all the rastersizing and shizzle.

    You work that out and I will bow to your awesomeness!

    (and I am poking my tongue out at you cause I still haven’t lost the baby weight from my first child and she is EIGHTEEN!)

     
  8. Midori, 14. July 2010, 22:45

    I noticed last night (I originaly read your post a couple of days ago but didn’t get around to commenting) that Joey has a couple of Mem Fox books that his Godmother has sent him over the years. (She lives in Perth)

    I fed Joey to sleep for about 90% of his naps/nighttimes until we stopped BF-ing (the other 10% would be times when he fell asleep in the car/buggy :-) ) and I don’t think it has done him much harm. He is perfectly capable of putting himself to sleep (Although he does like to have a pre-bedtime snuggle, which is fair enough!) and his teeth are fine. I remember finally giving up bedtime bottles at the age of 5 just before going to primary school and yes, that was probably a little late but it hasn’t left me scarred for life so I have to agree with Jess. I guess I have always leaned towards the “whatever works” style of parenting as well though!! :-)

     
  9. Gina Sawamura, 18. July 2010, 11:08

    I agree with all the comments about the sleeping/napping issues. Do whatever works for you and Noah. My two were doing the 7pm – 7am sleep thing for about a year and I thought (naturally) that I was the best mummy in the world! Things change – routines help, but these should be flexible. Now they go to hoikuen, there’s no way they can get up as late as 7am!! Both my two love a drink at bedtime and it works so I do it. I always read a few books at bedtime too – all that concentrating on pictures and mummy’s voice droning on sends them to sleep!

    We have a few Mem Fox books too – Time for Bed and Koala Lou. Will try to get hold of Reading Magic too. I read both English and Japanese books to the kids. I wanted to do only English and hub to do the Japanese books, but in reality this has never happened because hub is never here at bedtime! The kids are a bit older now so have their favourites and tell me which books they want to read.

     
  10. Fani, 18. July 2010, 23:52

    hello!! i just came to your blog by another more blogs from gaijin wifes in japan, and i was surprised when i read your profile….so u are living in funabashi? because im also living here!! my name is Fani and im spanish ( u can find my english is not good right? hahaah^^) woman of 36 and living here with my 2 kids ( girl of 10 years and boy of 16 months) and my japanese husband.
    I started to know a looooot of blogs of english speakers wifes here in japan, since noww i was only reading spanish blogs, but principally they are single men, so im so happy that i can follow now new blogs of mixed families like mine, yoroshiku ne^^!! i have also a blog, but is by spanish.Anyone feel free to contact me!!

     

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