In an effort to improve on my writing I have decided to sign up for Encyclopedia of me which started over at Bella Dia (and which I found out about by reading Laura`s blog here...)… participating in this hasn`t actually improved my writing at all but I still live in hope…
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W is for Wedding News…
I tossed up many ideas for “W is for…” including the following: words, wiccans, witches, women, women`s rights, where is wally, wax museum & wallowing . These were just a few of the contenders but then I realized it has been awhile since I have done a proper wedding update and a lot has been happening and I have much to report!
We have crossed many things off our list and it is hard to believe that this weekend will mark six months to the big event! For those who don`t know Shun & I will be getting married on May 9, 2009 in Brisbane. We set the date back in February when we were still in Tokyo and my mum organized a venue for us before we even came back to Australia.
We have since been the venue together and it is lovely- perfect for kind of wedding we want. Our ceremony & reception will be held at the same place and there is also hotels on site which will be able to accommodate our international guests. We actually went just a couple of weeks back to see how it all looks when a wedding is coming in and it was all so pretty and enchanting.
We have also sent out “save the date” cards due to the high number of international invitees (The fan in the background was a gift from Benay & Naoki`s wedding)

I am still working on trying to incorporate some other Japanese traditions into the wedding…Any ideas are welcome.
We have gone for a cherry blossom theme (with pink and silver as the colour scheme!) as previously mentioned and are busy trying to incorporate that into as many aspects of the wedding as possible. It might be difficult to do that in the bouquets (which is a little dissapointing but I figured that already since May in Australia is not the right time of year for them) but we can use silks for the decorations etc.
We have organized a band, Soul Therapy and also cars (champagne coloured rolls royces!). We also have an awesome photographer who we will actually be having an engagement photoshoot with sometime in the new year. She will come to my mum`s house on the morning of the wedding to take photos of us getting ready and then will go to see Shun & the boys at Shangri-la (the venue!) before photographing the wedding and also coming with us down to the bay to have some photos taken by the water. All of this is part of the package we choose and it will include a magazine style album & some large prints. I have met with a a florist who will do all our bouquets, button holes & possibly deocorations for outside in the garden. I have also found a terrific dress maker for my dress & for the bridesmaids dresses…The style for the bridesmaids is choosen and I have a fair idea what I want for my dress also. We will meet with the dressmaker again in December or January and the bridemaids (none of which are in Brisbane by the way- one in London, one in Tokyo & another in Mt Isa) will send their measurements to me directly. When Clarie, one of my bridesmaids, was in Brisbane a couple of weeks ago down from Mt Isa we went and bought the material for the bridesmaid dresses- It is a bright fushia pink in dupian silk.
Several months back we found a great celebrant also who we both felt extremely comfortable with. We still have a lot of things to read through and choose for this though for example readings and what kind of vows we would like to say. I am hoping to find time in the next couple of weekends to go through this all with Shun as it will involve a little translating on my part.
Our wedding rings have also been chosen, bought and paid for! We already have them and we are both sooooooooo happy with them. I would show pictures but I am not sure on the ettiqutte of that kind of thing?! You might all have to wait six months to see pictures! Mine was made especially to fit with
Lastly, we also already have a cake maker (it will be a cherry blossom cake- probably marble mud cake with pink icing- she is also making us customized wedding cake toppers which Shun is so excited about as he had no idea people could do that kind of thing!)- Going to visit the cake maker in general has been Shun`s favourite wedding related meeting I think! Although he also loved seeing the venue all set up for a wedding as well.
Next on the list to organize is suits, honeymoon, bridal accessories, favours & getting the proper invitations ready to go. I will then have to start working on translations for the programs etc…Although T from TJ in Japan sent me translations from her Aussie wedding a couple of years back which are going to be extremely helpful!!!
I don`t think we are forgetting anything - we have no idea where to go for our honeymoon. We had a couple of ideas but I think we are back to square one now I think. Any suggestions??
So there you go, that is all the wedding news as of now….Am I forgetting anything?
I wish I could show more photos but it is a little hard I guess. All in due time though!!!
Some of the wedding planning has been a little stressful- like when one our groomsmen said he didn`t think he could come…we are still not sure if he is or not. The concept of groomsmen is kind of lost on Japanese people and I don`t think this friend understood that when Shun asked him and he agreed that it meant he would actually have to come to Australia. I know this is a big ask…Shun doesn`t (or didn`t- he has more of an idea now) exactley understand much about groomsmen and bridesmaids either.
Overall, things have gone fairly smoothly though. I can not believe that this time next year we will be married…It sounds a little crazy when I say it outloud but it still sounds so right! I am really looking forward to being married to Shun….
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