1 more day…

With just one more day of 2011 left I felt I couldn`t leave my last blog post up about our Christmas activities without at least touching on our actual Christmas. Although last year I also didn`t get to recap our Christmas or last weeks in Australia because I came back and Shion arrived early. That seems like so long ago now- he will be 1 next week! My last post of 2010 was about Noah turning 1 and my first post of 2011 was about Shion being born….

I cooked Christmas Eve and had a couple friends over as well as MIL & FIL. I think the food went down well- most of us ate seconds. Plus I made my first ever baked cheesecake with hints from both Mel & Khea and it turned out great. Definitely something I will be making again! Having Sam and her family for Christmas Eve dinner was great and her son and our boys had fun playing together. I spent most of the 23rd and 24th in the kitchen but it was worth it!!!

Christmas Day was a quiet one- we opened presents with my mum on Skype then spent the day at home eating leftovers, listening to carols and playing with the things the boys got. Lovely and quiet family day. The boys got totally spoilt of course- all of their presents from Santa were joint presents then from us they got some things for just them as well as a bunch of stocking stuffers. Plus things from my brother, mum, some friends & my in-laws {although they got their Christmas presents from the in-laws early!}. It was all about the kids!!!

My computer is on its last legs I think and so while I uploaded some photos to facebook I haven`t uploaded them to flickr in order to put them up on here.

This past week since Christmas has been pretty quiet as well- lots of play at the park and with friends although I had a 24 hour bug or something a couple of days ago which knocked me around for a bit.

I also went to the movies today for the first time in 2.5 years. I was nearly 30 weeks pregnant with Noah last time I went to the cinema. Had a lovely lunch, walk around the shops, coffee and then watching the movie with a friend. Great day out!

Blogging has hit the back burner lately for me- I am reading less and less and commenting even LESS than that so for 2012 I will try to be a better blogger. Not only with writing but also reading and commenting. While I love blogging and the interaction it gives me with so many wonderful people I do not want it to become a chore. That said- I also do not want to give it up!

The first half of 2011 was a rough one- Shion coming early, living at the in-laws then back at the apartment and then the earthquake and tsunami. Also moving house. The second half was a lot calmer, for us at least, although I will be glad to see the start of 2012.

Resolutions? Well pretty sure one of my resolutions for 2011 was to be better with money and save a certain amount- almost definitely failed at that. Next year….lets see…
-Be a better blogger
- Lose 5kg {or at least try to exercise 3 times a week. Need to find something to do at home. Maybe once we are in the new house and have more space I will start hooping again! I lost a ton of weight after Shion was born and then more with the stress, breastfeeding and then earthquake but I have put it all back on…and a bit more}
- Be better with money {than I was in 2011} and decide on a certain amount to save each month and stick to it
- Try to reduce our food bill {Including nappies and formula it is about 90,000yen a month so there must be SOMEWAY to bring that down}
-Find at least 5 more hours of work a month {which would take me up to about 10 hours a month- luckily I look to be able to do this from February}
- Stop buying children`s books but continue to read 10 or more books with the boys each day
- Work on Shion`s scrapbook and get it up done up until he is 1 {so far behind with this}
- Take the boys to Disneyland.
- Have a three date nights with Shun

Finally, my main resolution is to be a better mother and strive to be the best mother I can be. I need to work on this more- I love my kids and while I am not a bad mother there are definitely areas that I can improve!

So, there you go, 10 resolutions for 2012! We have a trip planned to Australia in March and then hopefully again for Christmas if we can swing it {although it might not happen} plus we are moving into our BRAND NEW HOUSE so 2012 will be exciting one way or an other.

Maybe I will start another 101 things in 1001 days- will have to think about it.

What are your resolutions? Do you have any? Did you meet your 2011 resolutions?

Happy New Year everyone!

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Tot School- Christmas…

Tot School

Christmas themed tot school has been a lot of fun. With birthday parties and planning Christmas feast as well as some other things and still trying to spend a lot of time outside on nice days we haven`t done all that I planned but still got some things done! Lots of art & crafts which I loved as we often fall short in that area! Noah also loved it and we let Shion have a go at a couple things too!

Noah is 24 months, Shion is 11.5 months.

Art & Craft

Lots of Christmas stickers {like probably 6 times in the last 2.5 weeks!}

Tot School- Christmas

Decorating a Christmas tree with markers and stickers

Tot School- Christmas

Christmas cards for family {with more stickers, of course!}

Tot School- Christmas

Tot School- Christmas

The reason Noah is often in his brothers highchair when we do art/craft

Tot School- Christmas

Photo quality is not great here but Noah made a stocking collage

Tot School- Christmas

Lots of coloring & drawing

Christmassy totschool

Noah loved this activity. A Christmas tree with shapes {that I had cut out previously} and some glue- he had to stick them in the right place which he did ALL of them correctly without any help {of course some faced different directions but he got the positioning correct!}

Christmassy totschool

Decorating some paper to make wrapping paper for his Daddy`s Christmas present. He is so proud now when we pass the presents on the stairs to point out “his” paper.

Christmassy totschool

Felt Christmas tree ornaments decorated with buttons. This was another hit. I had prepared three because I knew he wouldn`t want to stop at one. He cried though when it was done. I should of prepared more in advance!

Christmassy totschool

Two of the finished trees

Christmassy totschool

Drawing on his white board with red and green markers

Enjoying one of his birthday presents

A contact paper christmas collage. I found it really hard to find contact paper here in Japan so friend bought me some back from Australia recently {Thanks Nic!}- I originally though it would make a great first collage for Shion as I have seen it around on the web with kids as young as him trying it out but the problem is he still tries to eat EVERYTHING so instead I gave Noah some materials and he did it while Shion was napping one day.

Contact collage for Christmas

Contact collage for Christmas

Then he decided to throw the materials around the room but when prompted he also cleaned them up. So a practical life activity thrown in!

Contact collage for Christmas

Painting with baubles

Christmassy totschool

Christmassy totschool

Practical Life

One of my favourite practical life activities is cooking/baking with Noah. I can not wait til we are in our new house and our kitchen will lend itself to more than one person standing at the bench. I wish I could have Noah help more often but it is currently not so safe especially with Shion also under foot. I am so excited to include him more once we move though! We did do some cookie baking though {today actually after I put it off for almost a week- I shouldn`t of!}. Due to lack of space we did it on our dining table! Once we move Shion will be at the age where he can start to help a bit more {mixing, rolling, washing!} so that will be fun as well.

Rolling
Baking cookies for Christmas

Pressing in the cutters
Baking cookies for Christmas

Decorating before they go into the oven
Baking cookies for Christmas

I have enough ingredients for another batch so we might even do some on the 24th or 25th. Maybe in red and green!!!

I think cutting using scissors is practical life isn`t it?

This is the first time I introduced scissors to Noah- I made some cutting strips by putting stickers and lines on some cardstock. He didn`t really enjoy this but I still have some left so we will try again soon. Perhaps giving him paper and scissors with nothing on the paper is the better way to go for this at first.

Christmassy totschool

Christmassy totschool

I made a peg activity by putting washi tape on some pegs {reds/greens or christmas patterns} and then putting some tape on a rolled piece of cardboard for Noah to match up. I thought he would like this more than he did but he did humour me for a little bit but preferred to give me the peg, show me where it went then get me to peg it for him.

Christmassy totschool

Christmassy totschool

Another practical life activity: Spooning! We used large red and green puff balls and a muffin tin- I put coloured stickers in the tin so he could do some colour matching as well {a favourite activity of his!} – I loved that he tried to use the spoon each time even though he also needed his hands to help guide the ball. We pulled this out a couple of times before his birthday party but then I needed the tin for muffins for the birthday party and he cried when he saw me pulling off the stickers. Poor Noah!

Tot School- Christmas

Oh we also did a ton of water pouring, mainly in the bath. Noah has a bottle and a bucket with small handle and he does a lot of pouring, filling up, then pouring some more. Bath times are great for him for practical life focus actually as he helps wash his face and hair {we shower before we have a bath as that is usually the way it is done in Japanese culture as often everyone will use the same bath water- at the moment on the weekdays, it is just the three of us that use the bathwater at the same time} and then pulls the plug and cleans up the toys when prompted. He hates to get out of the bath now though so sometimes he throws toys first but if I gently remind him that he has to hop out but can have another bath tomorrow then he will clean up.

Math & Sensory

Christmas coloured patterning strips for his counting bears. {I know one at a time is better but he insisted on putting out all three}

Tot School- Christmas

Playdough!

Tot School- Christmas

Narrow to wide puzzle

Tot School- Christmas

Here he is picking it up to take it back to the bottom step where I had put it out {while Shion napped}

Tot School- Christmas

I have to admit that with cleaning up his toys and other things he is very good at this. Often doing it unprompted for example if I say we are going out or having dinner he will pack up what he is doing and put it back where it belongs.

Tot School- Christmas

I put together a Christmas themed sensory bin. He liked this okay but it was not as popular as I had hoped- good thing I just used things I had laying around mainly except for the “snow” although I bought that mainly for another craft that we didn`t end up getting too.

Christmas sensory bin

Christmas sensory bin

Christmas sensory bin

Matching coloured sticks to coloured christmas lights. Noah loves these sticks so anything that uses them he is into.

Christmassy totschool

Also lots of Christmas themed window gels. Noah adores these things! He played with them 4-5 times in the last 2 weeks.

Tot School- Christmas

No pictures but he is very into counting right now. He also knows when something is missing- ie, his new wooden ramp for cars has 5 little cars that came with it. If one is missing when he plays with it he walks around holding one finger in the air to indicate that one is missing and he is looking for it. His favourite books at the moment feature numbers too- ie “Spot can Count” and “5 useful engines”

Language & Music

Lots and lots and lots of reading {Christmas themed stories and others!}- Usually we read 3 books before nap and 5 books before bed at night except Noah almost always cons me into reading double that each time. Also different times of the day he will bring a book or two to read or to flick through by himself. Sometimes when Shion naps in the morning we snuggle up on the beanbag and read a couple of books as well as Noah likes to have me to himself {and not to have Shion`s hands/mouth in the way I guess!}

We did C is for Christmas- I put together a C sound box and we practiced both phonetic sounds for C and Noah could make both.

Christmassy totschool

Christmassy totschool

Here he is pointing to OUR Christmas tree when I asked him.

Christmassy totschool

Plus a C is for Christmas worksheet from Confessions of a Homeschooler.

Christmassy totschool

We also had Noah`s rhythmic class Christmas party- lots of bell ringing, meeting santa and dancing about. Noah had fun! {He is in the green}

Rhythmic Class Christmas Party

Rhythmic Class Christmas Party

Noah got some lovely birthday gifts including these animal puzzle cards with shapes. He enjoyed playing with them {and Shion enjoyed trying to eat them- are you seeing a recurring theme?}

Christmassy totschool

He also got some ABC touch and feel cards- for now I just let him have about half of them to explore. I will think up some other ways to use them for another time. Great for getting him to try and sound out letters though!

Christmassy totschool


Other activities

We spend time outside every fine day- sometimes 2 hours plus despite the cooler weather. Noah enjoyed leaf crunching a lot the last couple of weeks. He also has a “park” friend, Mao-chan {He says Mao ta} and loves to run around with her, hold hands with her and generally muck about. It is great for him to have a friend a bit older who is Japanese as most of the younger kids he spends time with on a semi-regular basis are other children with one foreign parent except for the students in his rhythmic class. Great for me too as I have made friends with Mao-chan`s mum and it is nice to have someone I can see day to day.

Tot School- Christmas

Noah got a tricycle for his birthday from his Japanese grandparents. He likes it okay except can`t seem to pedel by himself yet and actually enjoys pushing Shion around on it more than actually riding it himself. I hope he will get used to it!

Noah prefers to push Shion around on his bike than ride it himself!

I made a felt Christmas tree and stuck it to our living room wall so that Noah could “decorate” the tree himself. He does this most days- Shion also likes to pull what he can reach and try and eat them. Or put them under the sofa.

Tot School- Christmas

I made the boys an advent calendar- I bought a ready made one from Ikea that was santa shaped and come with 24 empty boxes which I filled with a small card with either “book” written on it or an activity with a small cookie or chocolate for Noah. I wrapped up 12 Christmas themed books and each day Noah has been really quick to request to open his advent box. It did not take him long!!! This is not so much related to “Tot School” but I hadn`t blogged about it yet. Some of the activities were craft projects, listening to carols, watching a Christmas dvd of their choice, baking cookies, stickers etc.

These photos were taken on my phone on the 1st day.

Advent Calendar

Advent Calendar

Advent Calendar


Baby School {with Shion, 11.5 months}

I found it very difficult to do certain activities while Shion is awake because of our space issues in our current place and the fact that Shion is still heavily into mouthing everything. I let him pretty much roam free but if he is awake when Noah is doing something then I have to hold him or put Noah up high which is no fun for Shion.

I did try him with his first craft project.

Tot School- Christmas

Tot School- Christmas

He has a lot of fun with his brother though and they create their own games.

Boys in a box

He has his pincer grip down as well- this will come in handy for some activities soon! At the moment he mainly uses it if their is food involved.

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Also some fun with the puff balls while Noah did some art! He got the idea to put them in the bowl soon after I gave them to him after I demonstrated dropping them in once.

Exploring with a mirror.

Tot School- Christmas

I also made him a Christmassy sensory bottle- red water with green sparkles and clear beads. He enjoyed rolling and chasing it as well but mainly just chewing on it.

Tot School- Christmas

Tot School- Christmas

Shion also met santa {at Noah`s rhythmic class Christmas party}

Rhythmic Class Christmas Party

He of course put it in his mouth!

No Tot School plans for the coming weeks! We will just wing it and hopefully learn through playing!

Linking up at 1+1+1=1, Living Life Intentionally and Living Montessori Now.

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2 today…

Two years ago today you arrived.

Sleeping in banzai position

Now you are two!

Tot School- Christmas

Yes that is you in both pictures. Hard to believe huh?

Happy birthday koala munchkin.

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Family photos…

Several weeks back we had a mini session with Dee & Tracey from 37 Frames – I wanted to get some family photos and photos of the boys to give to my mum and also to put up in the new house. We hardly have any photos of all four of us so it was nice to finally get some.

We had a great day although Noah literally fell over and split is top lip 1 minute before our 30 minute session was supposed to start. Luckily he calmed relatively quickly and the swelling didn`t come up until later in the afternoon. Noah loved the camera and both Dee & Tracey.

We had the session outside at Icho Namaki Dori in Tokyo near Omotesando. The leaves had started yellow {Icho= Gingko} and while it was really busy we had no problems.

Here are the photos we choose from our shoot. We are super happy with the results!

November family professional shots

November family professional shots

November family professional shots

November family professional shots

November family professional shots

November family professional shots

November family professional shots

November family professional shots

November family professional shots

November family professional shots

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A wiggly wiggly party…

As I mentioned we celebrated the boys birthday party last weekend- early for both of them! I went with a Wiggles theme because Noah is obsessed! Shion likes anything his brother does so that was easy!

I was so busy though I didn`t get many photos of the decorations etc but we had yellow/red balloons and streamers and decorations, wiggles plates and cups, a wiggles mat playing music that my mum sent and signs for the food which related back to a lot of The Wiggles songs. Invitations, while not home made this year, were also Wiggles themed! Also Wiggly party bags with wiggles themed snacks, balloons and party horns.

Both boys had a great time- Noah running around the park and Shion devouring everything in site. Lots of lovely people came to help us celebrate too!

Some shots from the day….
Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

Noah & Shion`s wiggly birthday party

 

Hard to believe my boys are almost 2 & 1 though!

 

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An update on words…

Today we had a joint birthday party for Noah & Shion- Noah will turn 2 in a week and Shion will turn 1 in early January- we lucked out with awesome sunny weather- it was cool but not too cold and a lovely day to catch up with friends, let the kids run around, eat lots of food and cake and here some wiggly tunes coming from a musical mat my mum sent {Theme was The Wiggles- photos to follow at some point}.

The party was a success and I think both boys had fun!

I have been trying to write this post since last week but with all the birthday party prep I didn`t get to it. We had Noah`s follow up assessment regarding his speech and possible signs of ASD.

After our original meeting where we had a home visit they had pretty much ruled out ASD {Autism Spectrum Disorder} – any of his “quirks” are more what seems to make him him and in the last 2 months some of the things that were concerning us have gotten less and less common. The Child Psychologist we met Wednesday also said that she saw no definite signs pointing to an Autism disorder and that she thought we had nothing to worry about. If we have the same concerns in a year or something else then we should have him reassessed then.

As for his speech- he definitely has a speech delay. Speech therapy in Japan though is non existent til 4. I was shocked! In Australia and I know also in America, it is all about early intervention but here they say just socialize your child and then if they are not talking at 4 or still behind at 4 then they start therapy.

No definite reason why his speech is delayed or hard to understand but she said she did notice he didn`t open his mouth very wide and used his hands a lot to communicate {more than the average child his age} without necessarily even making any sounds. Noah is still very drooly even at almost 2 so she thinks perhaps his muscles in his mouth/tongue are a little weak. She asked questions about how he eats {for example does he take bites then chew a lot then swallow or try to put everything in his mouth etc} and said that it might be better to give him large pieces of bread so that he has to use his jaw/teeth/tongue to bite bits off and eat that way instead of cutting things smaller.

He is not completely non verbal either, can say things that everyone can understand {mama, dada, ball, jiji, baba, go,, uhoh, nannan, and some others} and there is no sign of a hearing issue {which we already figured out as he has no problems responding to requests/his name/hearing airplanes or trains far off}. These two things mean that with time he should completely catch up with his speech.

The Child Psychologist made some good suggestions- she even suggested that because Noah is with me and I understand his signs/what he wants without him having to say clear words that perhaps putting him in an English class with other kids a similar age might encourage him to try and say words and things more because the other kids would be doing it also. It seems a bit strange to put my child in a class to learn English when I know he already understands things but when I thought about it what she said made sense. Not something we are planning on doing now but something to think about. There is also therapy offered once a month {to anyone that applies if they have had assessment though the hokken center like we did with Noah} for children that have communication issues. It is not speech therapy but more teaching kids how to communicate better with the skills they do have. Shun will ring up about this and we might look into it for the new year.

Other things we can work on at home include making exaggerated movements with out mouths including sounds {Ahhhhhh oooooo etc} and getting Noah to try and copy so that he moves his mouth more.

In Japan it definitely seems to be more of a wait and see approach. It still hurts to see other kids a similar age talking so much more but I have to stop letting it bother me I guess. I am still worried but there seems to be some things we can work on at home which of course I am open to doing- socializing him with other kids that talk, reading a lot, talking to him and listening to him talk back are all things I do already but the larger food, exaggerated movement with our mouths are things we can work on.

He is coming out with more “words” each week. I am looking forward to the day it will be more “words” each day.

 

We have been doing some Christmas themed tot school but probably no post this week! Will try to do one mid week perhaps or if not wait til next weekend! Lots of photos to upload from the party and from our recent activities!

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Shion- 11 months…

Darling Shion,

You turned 11 months old yesterday- less than a month now til you are one. I almost have two toddlers on my hands- eek! You are proving this to be true with “toddling” a little already. Yes- in the last month you took your first step. Since then you have taken to taking 1-2 steps when LAUNCHING yourself at me or whatever it is you want {still often the freezer. What is it with you and the freezer kid?}

We will be celebrating your birthday a little early though- you are having a joint party with your big brother Noah who is turning 2! Don`t worry I won`t make you have joint birthday parties when you are older and can have a say unless you want to of course.

You LOVE food {and most of your food is kept in the freezer so perhaps that is the reason?}- you will eat ANYTHING. Something falls on the floor while I am cooking and you are off like a rocket to try and get to it before me {small kitchen means less cutting space and more likely to have carrots or whatever on the floor!} – this also means I have to keep you strapped into the highchair after you and your brother finish meals because otherwise you try and eat any crumbs off the floor. Or your seat. Or your brothers clothes.

Snack time!

Finger food for Shion

Giving your brother a snack is even hard because of course you want some. Even if you have your own snack you will still try and get more by going after his. You probably eat a ton of things you shouldn`t…like the other day I found you munching on a seasame cracker…you also love to try and get some of your brothers sultanas. Noah is no help either because he will usually give you something small in order to get you to leave him alone!!

We are back on the trying to wean you- you are sleep trained now and can go to sleep by yourself fine….now it is time to cut back on the breastfeeding and move you over to formula. If you get a bit upset then I usually pat your bum for a minute or so and you calm right down and are happy for me to leave then. During the night though…well lets just say I am not calling you “darling” when you wake up at 3am and scream on and off until 4:30 whenever we put you back into your cot or even if I try to lie down with you in bed with us. I am not sure if weaning you fully onto formula will help with the night sleeping or not but at least if you want milk overnight or keep waking up your daddy can`t turn and say {when I wake him up} “Oppai hoshikunai?/He wants boobies”. I am surprised we made it this far with breastfeeding to be honest as I honestly thought I would of had trouble maintaining a good supply since you spent your first 7 weeks in hospital- I guess you were determined though!

Sometimes though you do just fall asleep wherever

Shion asleep...again!

This past month you have discovered the joys of shoes- apparently escaping to the genkan to try and munch on shoes is the best fun ever. You even will put one in your mouth by the strap and crawl back into the living room with it in your mouth. Of course I take them from you {and then you cry} but seriously- what kind of mother would I be if I let you much on shoes all the time?

You also went to the zoo for the first time- you were kind of impressed I guess?! I guess your view from the pram was not so great though. I think you will enjoy it more next time we go.

At the zoo in Ichikawa

At the zoo in Ichikawa

Together you boys get into a lot of mischief already- the other day you were tying to get into the genkan to get to the shoes and Noah opened the door for you and bought you a shoe. Another time he opened the toilet door, let you crawl in and then closed it leaving you in the dark. Not to mention the peek a boo! I love it when Noah wants you to follow him but you are absorbed in something else so Noah keeps running back for you, trying to entertain you with peek a boo and then running away again in the hopes you follow him. Sometimes you don`t get the message. Most of the time you guys get on quiet well though.

Giving Shion a hug turned into this!

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Down the slide

Icho namaki dori

You have done a lot of play this month- you have had fun with a slinky, a box, the lego man {You seriously LOVE the duplo lego man- I guess his head is good for gnawing?} and an octopus. Almost all things end up in your mouth. You also enjoy gnawing on furniture and books- I am looking forward to the end of the “mouthing” stage- is it coming soon? Let`s hope so!

Shion loves takotako the socktapus

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Baby plays with slinky

Baby plays with slinky

Give the baby a box

Oh and the climbing. How could I forget the climbing?

Give the baby a box

You can also open the shower door and climb up into the shower/bath even though it is an almost 30cm step up. Seriously kid, slow down!

Hopefully you will enjoy your little birthday party this weekend- I might let you try some cake {I am sure you will fight other children and people for a bite anyway even if I don`t offer you some}

Love you,
Mama

ps: Your 1st birthday is January 6th- I promise I won`t wrap up your presents in recycled christmas wrap if you promise to start sleeping through the night?! Deal?

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House progress…

I sometimes forget that some readers here are not on my facebook so often have no idea what is going on with our other projects.

Our land has been cleared, almost everything {except curtains basically- and final placement of power points} has been decided for our house and we are still scheduled to move in next April although it will be done in March {I will be in Australia then so we will move in once me & the boys are back}

We even did our “Jichinsai” last Friday which is basically a shinto land blessing by the shrine dude {yes, this is his official name!}.

The house will be a 5LDK- for those not familiar with Japanese house and apartment acronyms this means 5 rooms and a living, dining and kitchen. The 5th room, in our case, is a very small study for Shun but the boys have their own rooms and we have a main bedroom with WIC and also a guest room. Technically we have a 3rd floor with a loft but it is only 1.3m tall so mainly used for storage. The main bathroom with shower and bath is upstairs as well. Our downstairs is the living, dining and kitchen space which is open plan and leads out onto a wood deck which goes into the garden. There is also the entrance and toilet downstairs.

Our house is what is known as “Nisetai” which basically means 2 families/generations. Our in-laws will live next door to us kind of like a duplex. There living will also lead out onto the deck and garden but we will have separate front entrances and while there will be a connecting door {lockable} downstairs there is not way to get through to each others places from upstairs.

Our side of the house not including the loft is 130m2 or so. Considering where we live now is about 60m2 it will make a big difference {although by western standards still small I suppose!}.

Some photos:

From the Jichinsai {Land blessing}

Jichinsai

Shrine dude

Jichinsai

Some of our land:

Our land is cleared

Our plans:

Outside
House plans

1F
House plans

2F

House plans

Loft

House plans

So far the land has only been leveled, the space planned out and a portapotty bought in. I was thinking the foundations would go in this week but so far nothing. Where we live right now is less than a minute walk to our land but I looked out today when I drove past and nothing. Houses do go up SUPER quick in Japan though so I would not be surprised if the foundations, walls and roof are up by Christmas.

Lots to look forward to!

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Tot School- Body & Feelings…

Tot School

Noah is 23 months old & Shion is almost 11 months old. Bit of a hodgepodge couple of weeks but we did some fun stuff! So busy this time of year and with the boys birthdays coming up as well as Christmas and other commitments we have been out of the house a lot. Some of our activities this past couple of weeks were to do with my body and feelings.

Looking forward to starting some Christmas Tot School. Just finished putting together the advent calendar – there are little notes with some activities as well as some that say “book” because I wrapped up 12 Christmas themed books {mostly new, we only had 2 or 3 in our collection} and the boys can unwrap one every second day leading up to Christmas and on the other days we will bake cookies, watch Christmas dvds, do arts,crafts or stickers, learn some Christmas songs and more. I am slowly putting together some ideas for the next month – still a fair bit of prep to do but I have work this weekend so I have to finish my prep for that first.

Art & Craft

 
Hand prints {this is finger painting shot but we got some handprints as well. Realized I didn`t upload the photo though}

Tot School- Art

Tot School- Art

I really wanted to let Shion have a go as well and also to do feet prints but I would of needed an extra set of hands and our weekends have been so busy that we didn`t get to it. Maybe another time. Noah requests to do painting a lot recently so I know that our birthday present to him {an easel, new paints with chalk board on the other side} will be well received! He sits in Shion`s highchair to paint to keep things away from Shion but the easel should help with this as well.

Marble painting- This was a huge hit!

Marble painting- Tot School

Marble painting- Tot School

Self portrait- There was a mirror on the table but you can`t see it here. He thought it was funny that I put a mirror on the table.

Drawing a face

Putting lids back on the markers is just as much fun as using them- look at the concentration.

Putting lids back on markers- look at that concentration

We did a face collage- I found a printable sheet with eyes, mouths, ears etc {quite monteresque!} and cut them out- we did the first one together so I could show him what they were for and then I let him go with the glue and eyes, mouths etc galore. He loves any work where I let him use glue!!!

Tot School- Art

Tot School- Art

Stickers {can`t have a week without stickers!}

Stickers! Always a totschool favourite

We even practiced some body parts by me telling Noah to put stickers on daddy`s cheeks, chin, feet etc! {Yes he is really asleep…and no he didn`t wake up!}

Stickers onto daddy

Another time he practiced on himself.

Stickers & F

Lots of drawing as usual- here he is telling me to colour with him!

Colouring


Practical Life & Fine Motor Skills

Looking through the photos I realized we didn`t do much practical life work- well nothing that I documented. I am encouraging Noah to try and undress himself and put his own shoes on, he loves to help sweep and he does a great job of helping to clean up his own toys. If he wants to request to do something else {that may be out of reach because of Shion} then he always cleans up and then points out what he wants as he knows I will usually say clean up first before getting down his play food and utensils or his crayons. I also let him choose what he wants to wear most days by giving him 2 choices- he will usually have some jeans or something out but I will hold up 2 or 3 jumpers or jackets and he will choose which he wants and he helps to clean up the bath toys and wipe down the bath when he is hopping out.

Some things we did do.

Fine motor skills work tracing lines {for his “F” sheets- F is for Foot from 1+1+1=1} – He understands this concept but is not there yet and just wants to try to colour the pictures so we trace together and then he colours.

Tot School- Letter F

We did some bean pouring

Pouring- Tot School

He had quite a few spills this time as he was in such a rush but he cleaned each time.

Pouring- Tot School

If Shion is napping then I can put out a couple of activities on our bottom step for Noah to choose- he knows to put them back if he wants to try something else. We don`t have the space to keep things out continuously but I try where we can.

Pouring- Tot School

We tried tonging again as well- this was a lot more successful than in the past. Noah used his hands as well but he really tried hard to get them with the tongs first.

Tonging- tot school

Open & Close basket I made a couple of weeks ago made another appearance as well.

Open and close basket- Tot School

We also went on a family trip to the zoo over the weekend and the petting zoo was a good way to show Noah how to be gentle with animals. He loved the guinea pigs {he only wanted to pat them though, he did not want to try and hold them} but also wanted to pat all the other animals. He had no fear and would of climbed in to the monkey enclosure to pat them too if I had let him :D

At the zoo in Ichikawa

Here he is being gentle to the goat {When I said be gentle he switched from a full flat palm to one finger!}

At the zoo in Ichikawa

At the zoo in Ichikawa

We will definitely be going back to this zoo sometime soon- quite cheap and only a 10 minute drive from our house. Also had a train that kids could ride with their parents and a park so Noah got out a lot of energy and had a great time. Due to the size as well he could walk freely as it wasn`t too busy or too big.

Math & Sensory

Colour sorting paddle pop sticks made another appearance after Noah caught sight of them in the cupboard and went to get his stacking cups to show me he wanted to do it again. Really this is too easy for him now but he really seems to like it.

Colour sorting

We also did a fruit/veg colour sorting activity {I got the idea from The Activity Mom}

Colour sorting

Noah also dressed a little man I made out of felt.

Mini felt board- putting clothes on

My felt skills are shocking! My cutting skills are worse!

This falls under language as well but we did some matching exercises with body parts. I got this print out online but I can`t remember where- if you have a link for it please let me know. Noah knows all of the body parts in these pictures and enjoyed matching them up! The book in the picture is a recent favourite as well.

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Language

I am trying to focus a lot on language with both boys. If you have read other posts you would know that Noah is not a talker and this has been a big stress for me lately mainly because especially in recent months his inability to communicate makes him so frustrated and I want to help him. I know he understands {A lot!} but he can`t seem to form many words instead relying on signing and pointing and noises. I try to get him to say words when I know what he wants- like if something rolls under the sofa and he can`t reach it he just starts screaming and pointing and I say “Noah, what should you say if you want my help” and he says “mama” and then signs help. I tell him to say “mama, help” – He can`t do the help sign properly though and instead kind of does a cross between more and train {two signs he uses a lot!}. We encourage him to say a lot of different sounds and he loves his ABC book a lot and he can make the sound of over half of the letters when prompted {several he can do unprompted like the phonic sounds for the letters in his name as well as G, B, F and S}

Here he is doing an F sticker sheet I made and looking at his ABC picture book at the F page.

Stickers & F

We also talked about feelings- he has several books that touch on this. He LOVED the Happy/Sad monster book with the masks {I think it is called Glad Sad monster?}- Here he is separating happy and sad pictures of babies and kids {I saw this idea on The Princess & The Tot} – He didn`t really get what I was asking him to do but he loved the pictures especially the ones that included him or his brother. We read Happy Sad first {you can see it in the edge of the picture}.

Happy/Sad

The F letter basket {with fishing game} was a hit and Shion enjoyed it as well. We did some worksheets later the same day from 1+1+1=1.

F is for...

F is for...

Tot School- Letter F

As usual we read a ton of books! We have story time before nap and bed but Noah will often bring others to read at different times. He definitely has clear favourites though!

Baby School

I was a bit lazy with organizing stuff for Shion the past couple of weeks. Here are some recent pictures of him though- he is finally getting more into books {instead of just trying to eat him. I really never had this problem with Noah.} and I have had quite a few deliveries lately so giving him a box to play with turned out well! He was learning about object permanence here because when I put things inside the box he knew to look for them and could climb in and then crawl backwards out!

Shion finally getting into books!

Give the baby a box

He is also working on his pincer grip with finger food!

Finger food for Shion

Gross motor skills are always getting a workout as well!

Shion loves this mirror

Give the baby a box

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Less than a month…

Christmas is now less than a month away.

Where the hell has this year gone? I mean this time last year I was already in Australia, had an almost one year old and was pregnant with #2. It does not seem that long ago. In fact, while it is a a cliche, it seems like just yesterday.

What also doesn`t seem that long ago was giving birth to Shion…I mean he was early so of course it was unexpected but I can`t believe he is now on the verge of walking {he took his first unaided step last weekend, another 2 in a row today but he seems to be content with doing one here and there and crawling the rest of the way. Oh well – I am in now hurry for him to walk!}. Noah turns 2 on the 19th……I will no longer have 2 kids under 2….

Shion is now fine for sleeping. He goes in his bed, he settles himself without crying/tears and sleeps better because of it. He went into bed at 7pm and has not woken up at all since then so far…where as before he would of been up at least once, usually two or more times by now {It`s almost 10pm}……we are also down to one feed over night, usually around 2am but he often wakes 2 other time either before or after but a quick cuddle and a pat on the back and he is fine to resettle himself. It took less than a week of being consistent and there was a lot less tears/crying than I thought there would be. I would like to cut off the overnight feed by the time Christmas rolls around but we will see. I am also looking to wean him…I am all for breastfeeding but I guess because I weaned Noah quite early {before 9 months}  that I just feel extended breastfeeding is not for me {although I admire those who do. I guess I am a bit too selfish! Plus Shion keeps biting me and nothing seems to deter him} and want to wean Shion around the time he turns one. I think the best time will be just before he is one over the new years holidays so that Shun can be around to help as I am sure it will not go smoothly.

Noah still doesn`t talk but still trying not to let it get me down too much. I am trying to get him to use his “words” to communicate but we still just get a ton of pointing, grunting and crying. Recently though he has started to say “mama” a lot when he wants my help without prompting {after weeks of me saying- “Noah, if you want me to help then you have to say “Mama, help”}…..he tends to sign “help” though.

I have a lot of Christmas activities plannned to do with Noah and some things we can involve Shion in as well- I have already decorated our flat, planned Christmas eve feast and bought all the boys Christmas and birthday presents {except 3 things I have to pick up from Ikea on Monday}. I still have to shop for my brother, his girlfriend, my dad and Shun though. My mum and the boys though, done! I am hoping “santa” brings me a new computer but I am not liking my chances. I guess an ipad would be my second choice and if that is also a no go then a new wallet would be nice.

I love this time of year but as I was telling a friend recently a cold Christmas is just not the same- for many {well, half the world!!!!} a cold Christmas is the norm but I grew up with swimming and seafood and long summer school holidays at this time of year and I do wonder if I will ever get to the point where having Christmas here is as good as having it at home. Perhaps it is also the fact that Shun doesn`t really “get” why I like Christmas so much and try to make it so special. He has been in Australia for 2 Christmas`s but I guess it still hasn`t rubbed off on him yet….

At least this year it is on a Sunday so he has the whole day off {plus the 23rd, a public holiday, and of course the 24th is a Saturday}….3 days of Christmas cheer!

The next month is hectic though! Next week we have trips to Ikea, Cost-co and the embassy planned as well as our regular rhythmic class, possible coffee date and work planned. I am FINALLY apply for Shion`s official Australian passport {his emergency passport expired last month} and last week I applied for his Japanese one so he will soon be officially able to travel! I have work the next couple of weekends, a Bonenkai {end of year party}, Rhythmic class Christmas party, the boys birthday party {11th…Wiggles themed!}, a friends son`s birthday party and then Christmas followed closely by New Years. Yes. Crazy like.

We have Noah`s follow up assessment {for speech delay and ASD} on the 7th and then numerous other plans.

This was technically our last “free” weekend day actually. Tomorrow we have some professional family photos scheduled but today we originally had no plans so decided to have a real family day with a trip the local zoo {was great!}, play in the park and okonomiyaki for dinner. Today was awesome actually. It was Shun`s idea to go to the zoo and I am so glad we got up and got going early- Noah loved roaming around and it wasn`t so crowded so he could go where he pleased. He enjoyed patting the Guinea pigs, the regular pigs, some goats, chicks and a sheep as well as seeing a ton of other animals. This mini zoo is a 10 minute drive from where we live but we had never been before {and neither had Shun despite having lived in the area for um…30 years1}. Shion was a bit grumpy but he is at that age where he wants to be held by me…ALL THE TIME. He sat on the top of the pram though and had a good view while Noah ran around. They also had a mini train you could ride and a park so Noah had a blast! It will be nice once Shion is walking and climbing in that sense because all he wants to do is play and follow his brother but it is not always possible {at the local park I usually let him crawl around but he is still in the mouthing stage so he tends to eat a lot of grass or chew on inappropriate things. The other day he also kissed a poodle!}. We ate lunch there before coming home for naps {and I went to do the weeks food shopping} and then went out to the local park once the boys were awake! Such a nice family day, just the four of us.

I have a Tot School post coming although we haven`t done much the last two weeks although we have spent a TON of time outside and made lots of “new” friends at the park. There is a little girl Mao-chan, about 9 months older than Noah, and they have a blast running around together. She is always like “Noah-kun to asobitai yo” {I want to play with Noah-kun} when we arrive at the park if she is already there or if they come after us she yells from her mum`s bike “Noah-kun, Noah-kun, Mao-chan da yo” {Noah-kun, Noah-kun, It`s Mao-chan}….she calls Shion “Noah no akachan” {Noah`s baby} and always wants to touch his cheeks. They play really well together and it is fun to watch!

We had our Jichinsai { Shinto land blessing} on Friday- slab gets porn this coming week. I will post photos soon. A house update in general is needed I guess since everything is now decided and building is starting. Shun`s parents house is now completely cleared from the land and our house outline is marked out with string. Seems so strange to stand on there now and think “wow, we will be living here next year” – exciting though as well!
Well I guess that is all- just felt I hadn`t blogged an update in awhile. Lots happening but nothing terribly exciting! Have an early start tomorrow {we all have to be up about 6am so we can leave at 7:30 to get to Aoyama for the photo-shoot} so best sign off and head to bed!

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