Update on 30 before 30…

Because I have absolutely nothing else to report. Happy Easter though!! This was taken today behind our house- cherry blossoms are starting to fall from the branches and soon these trees will be covered in green leaves! Despite the warmer weather last week it was freezing yesterday and today hence the jackets!

 

1. Read 50 books (obviously not including children`s books) – Have read 3/50 (March 2013)

2. Commit to exercising 5 x a week for one month. – I did this in March. Mostly it was longer walks pushing the buggy but I also did some hooping, yoga and tried “cowboy dance” from a Japanese fitness dvd. The boys joined me in that one! Probably would of lost weight if I hadn`t eaten all that Easter chocolate! (March 2013)

3. Spend a Christmas in Australia with the boys.

4. Go on a family holiday (2 nights or more somewhere that is NOT Brisbane)

5. Take the kids to Disneyland or Disneysea again.

6. Write a will (Need to figure out the legalities with this in Japan)

7. Make photo books for 2013 & 2014 (Did our first one for 2012, love it!) and finish Shion`s 1 year scrapbook.

8. Have some (professional) family photos taken

9. Enroll and settle kids into kindergarten April 2014.

10. Make a playlist with a hit song from 1985 til now – Done. Fun to listen to! Random trivia- hit song from 1985, the year I was born, “Money for nothing” by Dire Straits. (March 2013)

11. Try 20 new recipes. – Done- I figured I should try and cross the easy things off the list first and had wanted to add some new recipes to our menu. I would say the  mushroom ankake recipe for salmon off a Japanaese cooking facebook group I belong to was the biggest hit!! Especially with Shion who loves all types of mushrooms especially shimeji and maitake! Personally I liked the tuna potato cakes! (March 2013)

12. Put up a photo wall in our house (put other photos and paintings up to that are still in our spare room since we moved here!)

13. Complete 30 hours of Japanese study (My kanji is atrocious)

14. Go somewhere in Japan I have never been before.

15.  Have a full health check and find a gyno in my area.

16. Try skiing again

17. Apply for and hopefully receive my permanent residency. -Applied March 19th 2013.

18. Teach Noah & Shion to read

19. Go to all night karaoke.

20. Learn a new skill

21. Buy new boots

22. Do one 30 days project (or some kind of online course) – Signed up for two different projects in April 2013!

23. Have a daily dance party with the kids everyday for a month – Attempted this in March but only succeeded in doing it about 2/3 of the time! So have to try another month.

24. Go one week without wearing any denim (seriously…in winter I live in jeans and in summer I live in denim skirts)

25. Do something drastic with my hair. I am thinking to grow it a little then get it permed!

26. Get rid of 30 or more personal items (can be clothes, shoes, books etc. Can`t be children`s clothes or toys) – March 2013 got rid of 4-5 personal things plus a ton of baby stuff.

27. Knit something.

28. Volunteer for something (maybe an AFWJ position) – I volunteered to help out with the AFWJ journal name checking. I might do something else before I turn 30 but this is a start! (March 2013)

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So 4/30 completed and others started as of end of March 2013.

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Spring in my step…

I don`t think I realized how much the winter and the cold days were affecting my mood but also how hard it was to have the kids sick one after another with colds, ear infections, flu, asthma and croup for what seemed like weeks on end. Both boys have been well the last couple of weeks and with the warmer weather moving in we are making the most of it by spending more time outdoors. Best to do it now before summer hits and we (okay maybe just me!) won`t want to leave our air-conditioned living room.

Also, Noah will FINALLY play in the garden. Basically after last summer when the mosquitos were bad he started to refuse to play out there. I wanted our own home with a garden so that my children could play outside freely but he refused to set foot in it. The last 10 days or so though he has played out there most days- blowing bubbles, using chalk, exploring the garden and playing in the sandpit. I try to get them out for a walk or to the park each day but it is nice to have the garden too because then we can play outside in the morning and afternoon.

Plus my favourite time of the year (which has put a “spring” in my step!) has arrived. Cherry blossom season! They are blooming early this year and I think the trees along the river behind out house are less than a week away from being in full-bloom! No special hanami planned (well we did for April but I think they will be gone by then) but hope to enjoy them this weekend and next weekend with my family.

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30 before 30…

Today is my 28th birthday. I started this blog the April after I turned 21….hard to believe so much has happened since then. I like the idea of having a list of things to try and achieve before I turn 30. Some of these things have been on my to-do list for awhile or things we were already planning to do but it was nice to write them down and think about some other things I want to achieve. A couple of years ago I did 101 things in 1001 days- I didn`t cross everything off my list but I did do a lot of things and think I completed something like 93% of the things listed. I thought about doing 101 things again but felt 30 things over a 2 year period would be fun!

I was going to separate them into categories but instead this is how I wrote them down in my journal.

1. Read 50 books (obviously not including children`s books)

2. Commit to exercising 5 x a week for one month.

3. Spend a Christmas in Australia with the boys.

4. Go on a family holiday (2 nights or more somewhere that is NOT Brisbane)

5. Take the kids to Disneyland or Disneysea again.

6. Write a will (Need to figure out the legalities with this in Japan)

7. Make photo books for 2013 & 2014 (Did our first one for 2012, love it!) and finish Shion`s 1 year scrapbook.

8. Have some (professional) family photos taken

9. Enroll and settle kids into kindergarten April 2014.

10. Make a playlist with a hit song from 1985 til now

11. Try 20 new recipes.

12. Put up a photo wall in our house (put other photos and paintings up to that are still in our spare room since we moved here!)

13. Complete 30 hours of Japanese study (My kanji is atrocious)

14. Go somewhere in Japan I have never been before.

15.  Have a full health check and find a gyno in my area.

16. Try skiing again

17. Apply for and hopefully receive my permanent residency.

18. Teach Noah & Shion to read

19. Go to all night karaoke.

20. Learn a new skill

21. Buy new boots

22. Do one 30 days project (or some kind of online course)

23. Have a daily dance party with the kids everyday for a month

24. Go one week without wearing any denim (seriously…in winter I live in jeans and in summer I live in denim skirts)

25. Do something drastic with my hair. I am thinking to grow it a little then get it permed!

26. Get rid of 30 or more personal items (can be clothes, shoes, books etc. Can`t be children`s clothes or toys)

27. Knit something.

28. Volunteer for something (maybe an AFWJ position)

29.

30.

 

I have left a couple things open- still thinking of ideas and what I really want to do in the next two years. Lots of other possible ideas jotted down including:  I would love to go to Singapore to visit my friend Catherine while she lives here but know it might be financially impossible. Dropping a bad habit, run 5km without stopping, fit into size 10 jeans, get a manicure/pedicure, do a random act of kindness,  go 1 month without raising my voice at the kids, have a romantic weekend away just with Shun….

What would be on your list?

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Then & now…

It looks like for now I am blogging sporadically but only for Deb`s Listmania link up! This weeks topic sounded like fun- talking about our crushes then and now.

I was born in 1985 so most of my first crushes were in the 90s. I know I had posters of these guys on my walls way back when…It makes me cringe a little just to see these old pictures!!!

The backstreet boys

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And this guy, Jonathan Taylor Thomas

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Plus who could forget Leonardo Dicaprio. Pretty sure I saw the titanic at the cinema three times.

In my early teens I loved I also loved Josh Jackson – source. This continued into my later teens as well!


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A little later in my teens, maybe from 2000 onwards it was more Ryan Phillipe, Paul Walker and Heath Ledger. Pictures sourced from IMDB.

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Ryan Phillippe Picture

Paul Walker Picture

Now? Well I am partial to George Clooney. Despite  the age difference! Have loved him since ER so it is a childhood crush that has lasted til now! Paul Walker is still hot!
George Clooney Picture

Who else? Well I do like Satoshi Tsumabuki!

And Josh Hartnett!

 

Some of these definitely make me cringe now!

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Current season…

The prompt for this weeks listmania hosted at Home Life Simplified was to share your highs and lows , loves and hates of your current season. Deb is an American living in Australia so her current season is summer (and she is in Brisbane where I am from!) but my current season is winter so here goes:

Love

  • Snuggling under blankets and doonas and reading a good book {or just snuggling!}
  • Snow. I grew up in Queensland and never even saw snow until I was 19 and living here. I am glad I live somewhere where it doesn`t snow much {maybe only 2-3 times a year} but I like it when it does all the same.
  • Contented tummies from yummy tummy warming food like soups, stews and more.
  • The TV shows! Everyone knows that over the American summer the TV is not as good!
  • Lots of celebrations- birthdays {mine and also Noah & Shion`s!} plus Christmas and new year!

Hate

  • Freezing. I don`t like being cold. That said I much prefer being cold than too hot and Japanese summer is a killer.
  • Higher electricity bills {because we are cold!} and higher gas bills {having more baths}
  • gloves and scarves. For me and the kids. Just a pain all round to have to get the kids into hats and gloves to go play outside
  • That it is expensive to fly because it is near Christmas etc. I would actually prefer to spend Christmas in Australia every year as even though it means two summers a year at least the Brisbane summer is not as humid as here. Christmas spirit is just different in Australia!

I am sure there are other things I dislike about the winter but I can`t think of them at the moment….

What do you like about winter? What do you hate about it?

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Currently I am…

I love lists. Who doesn`t? (really…..are there people who don`t like lists out there?). Seeing as we are home bound this week after Shion tested positive for influenza on Friday and Noah & I on Saturday I figured why not blog? I don`t have lesson plans to do since I had to cancel all of my work til Friday and I am totally ignoring housework since i feel poorly. So I figured I would link up to Deb`s new linky listmania. Not sure if I will link up each week or not but I will when I feel the urge!

This week is easy as it is all about what I am currently doing. Which isn`t much!

Currently I am…

Reading… facebook status updates. Oh wait…probably should put a book hey. On my ipad I am reading “Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids: How to Stop Yelling & Start Connecting” by Dr Laura Markham. As for paper books I am half way through a Sandra Brown romance/mystery. With the kids I am reading a lot of Eric Carle {The Very Hungry Caterpillar, Brown Bear & Does a Kangaroo have a mother too?}, I love you stinky face, Duck! Rabbit! {by Amy Krouse Rosenthal – love her books!} and Do`s & Don`ts.

listening to…  silence. Yes. The kids are in bed. Actually I am listening to typing noises. Earlier today we had a itunes genius mix which had Adele, Lenka, John Lennon, Jackson 5 & Modest Mouse….quite the odd mix.

laughing at… The things Noah says. Today he had a tantrum when he woke from his nap because he was upset I was wearing a bra. It took me about 10 minutes to figure out what he was crying about/saying and it turns out he was upset because he didn`t have one. I had to laugh!

swooning over… Kids books. We have more than enough but I still want more. I was also swooning over some boots on Javari earlier…..Oh how I would love some new boots!

planning… Our budget for the year and ways to save money so that we can go on a holiday somewhere within Japan or perhaps overseas. Best friend in Singapore for the next 2 years…would love to go alone for a bit of a break sometime while she lives there. I miss traveling but in recent years any extra cash has gone to trips back to Australia {which we are also planning for this year}

eating lots of… Comfort food to keep us warm. Also lots of mikan {mandarins}. Also trying NOT to eat too much chocolate as one of my goals for the first part of the year was to lose 3kg by end of March.

feeling… A bit better than yesterday. Glad we had flu shots. Even though we got the flu it has been pretty mild.

discovering… A desire to blog again. It definitely comes and goes.

looking at… The weather forecast predicting snow overnight and for Thursday. Also looking at my journal where I have the prompts for this weeks list written down.

wearing… Uniqlo fleece pajamas and red woolen socks. A fashion statement for sure!

cooking… Eggplant/mushroom and pesto pasta for dinner tonight. Something quick and easy that I knew the kids would like. Also cooking a lot of omelettes lately since Shion is a huge fan of eggs and now Noah is too! Their favourite so far was spinach, cheese and smoked salmon! Since we are indoors all day tomorrow I have promised Noah we could make apple cake or muffins. Cooking with the kids is fun but also very stressful!!!

wondering… Who will read this list and what they will be thinking. Also wondering if Shun remembered to take an umbrella to work like I told him he should of if he will walk in the door later wet since the rain/snow is supposed to start soon.

trying out… Writing something I am grateful for everyday so far this year. Since most days I have written 2-3 things I have 60 or so things I have written about so far in my journal. Today`s gratitude points were getting outside despite being quarantined- I think we all needed the fresh air!, feeling better than yesterday, having a proof reading job come in this morning and getting good feedback on it, Noah writing his own name unprompted for the first time on his colouring sheet and having a calm, no yelling day.

 

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Breathe…

While I have written some goals for 2013 {the list lover in me can not help it} I decided that I would also choose a word for my year. Next month I turn 28…..Sometimes I look at my life and think how is that I am married, own a home and have two children when I still feel like a kid myself sometimes? Where is the time going?

The last couple months have been hard for me. Nothing overly bad happened I have just been struggling, treading water so to speak. Keeping up with all the things on my to do list and raising two active toddlers while trying to be a better mum is hard.

For the last couple of years several bloggers I read have choosen words to represent their intentions for the year. I thought about a couple of different things- I looked back on my core values that I wrote around this time last year { love, growth, authenticity, happiness & balance) but none of those words jumped out at me as my word for 2013 even though they are all still values I wish for my life and for the life of my family.

Then it came to me.

My word for 2013 is breathe.

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Breathe when I want to yell. Breathe when I need to calm myself. Breathe when I feel stressed. Breathe when it feels like things are getting too much.

Breathe in gratitude, love and warmth. Breathe in the moment. Breathe then make decisions. Breathe then talk. Breathe and slow down. Breathe in the good and out the bad.

Just breathe.

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Shion turns 2…

Yesterday Shion turned 2 (just a coincidence that this post came straight after Noah turning 3!)…He is a smiley, cheeky little boy although not so little anymore!! I think the cheekiness started at birth with his shock entrance into the world 9 weeks early!! And just like that I was mum to two gorgeous little boys!!

Here he is 10 days old – my first hold!!

First shot of Shun, Shion & I

Even by one he had come a long way from the little preemie he once was!

Happy birthday Shion!

He had a great day yesterday opening presents, having lunch out and cake in the afternoon over a skype chat with my mum. Noah serenaded him with happy birthday song several times!!!

Happy birthday little man!!!

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Noah turns 3…

Yesterday my oldest, Noah, turned three.

Three years have passed since the frenzied car ride to the clinic in which contractions went from 8 mins apart to 1 min apart in a 3O minute time frame.

Joy

I remember thinking he was so little and so perfect {and how the hell did he fit out of there?}

I always thought I would be a mama. I don`t remember a time when I didn`t think I would become one one day and there I was, a mama to Noah James.

On his 1st birthday
Balloons!

A couple of days before his 2nd birthday
Christmassy totschool

And now…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

His request for his birthday was a purple cake!

I know I am not the best mama at times but I love you with all my heart. You drive me batty but I still love you. Always!

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Thankful…

Sometimes I like to remind myself why I am so lucky and why I have a lot to be thankful for. There is always something to be thankful for…

  • Christmas season is here! Our Christmas tree went up yesterday and the boys helped to decorate and put it together. So far they have not been TOO  hands on with it – I don`t mind them touching but draw the line at pulling things off and so far this is going well.
  • Thankful for wonderful friends, especially my mama friends in my area. We had a Chiba Peanuts meet-up on Friday and Stephanie & I can not believe that we have been running the playgroup for more than 2.5 years now since our first boys were just 4 months old or so. Yesterday we had a mini birthday party for another friend`s son! Someone who I met originally online as well which is why I am also thankful for the…..
  • Internet!
  • Thankful for patience. I seemed to have found a little bit lately!
  • Thankful for skype chats with my mum, brother`s gf Gemma and hopefully my brother this afternoon too. Also regular phone calls to my dad {who is doing well right now!} since he wouldn`t know how to use skype even if he did have a computer!
  • Thankful for planning. I am good at organizing stuff and it helps a lot at this time of year!
  • Grateful for my kids relationship with each other- they are becoming “friends” more an more each day as well as brothers. They enjoy each others company, get up to mischief together {this is not a new thing though!} and love to hug each other goodnight.
  • Thankful for having extra work lately- the extra money will definitely be helping over the Christmas season. As well as my teaching I have had some editing/native check with in the last couple of weeks too which is great since I can do it from home while the kids sleep.

Thankful for a lot of things. One of my babies is awake from their nap now though so I better sign off.

 

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